Corked should be the word used, when it comes to relationship and being in relationships, but if you ask me, what is the most beautiful part of being in a relationship, well its blank for me. Relationships have always been and will be a sort of emotional dump yard for both or either one. It might be true or false but there is some sort of sacrifice in it.
My experience in this area is off balanced and worth not sharing, may be my partner or partners, have been bit demanding in these areas but I could feel the real punch in my heart and the throb in my lungs for air and space every time.
This is not a postmortem of my "relational world" but it's just a casual thought process for both the sexes, a reference point, so that when you are under the line of fire, there is always a safety switch in the enemies gun, you have access to.
Majority of people in this world, (to the best of my knowledge), like to be in a relationship and like to build a Castle around them and live happily inside the castle premises. As this process takes a natural course, these spouses adds siblings, naturally the mother gets busy nourishing and up bring the siblings and the father gets busy, racing in time to find the needful supporting measures and accessories. A very small group of spouses does things together and the rest of the group, just happily fly around in search of the unknown.
We shall deal with the first two types now and later with the unknown searcher's. A particular bird species in the Papua New Guinea Jungles of Oceania, that occupies the eastern half of the island of New Guinea, have a very unique way of finding its mates. (To know more about this bird species, kindly refer or watch Life of Birds by David Attenborough.) During Mating Season the male birds get busy building very beautiful nest, sometimes on tree sometimes on ground and decorate their houses with all sorts of imaginable articles. Sometimes these houses will be even big enough for a human baby to sleep in.
Now that the males have finished building their nests and well decorated, it's time for the female birds to come around for inspection. The females inspect all the houses and enter the best house she likes, were she will mate with the male house owner and give birth to offspring's. See life is not simple for them too, poor birds.
OK let's go back to our castle now. Two groups with identical behaviors but distinguished by their way of sibling up bring, race against all odds. Most relationship researchers claim, this period to be the turning point, if any, for the spouses. This is an unbiased talk so, it's up to you to take the real sense; Ok the turning point starts when either of the spouse starts using the forbidden fruit.
Let's not enquire into why the fruit is consumed as it's a very broad topic and outside the scope of this talk. Let's enquire the outcome after consuming the fruit. A very stressful and disturbing period for the spouse and may even result in separation of both the parties. There are some smarty's who are good in doing fraud and equally good in concealing it, well I salute them, they know how to live and find the best out of life.
Now, the singles, unknown searcher's group. They are actually called the nomad type, no strings attached, no commitments to anyone and just like a String Broken kite, they fly around. At times with some temporary captive inmates, they live together but mostly these kites are powered and driven by wind, one's the wind fades off, they too fall off the sky and when the body rejoins the force, by which it was made of, the soul waits for the karmic creator's decision. If anyone could tap into these kites skill set, an array of mixed ideas can be unearthed.
Lets conclude, no matter what group we all belongs to; we all are here for a course and one's the due course is over, our body rejoins the 5 elements that we are made off and soul to the so called karmic energy bank. Living single or raising a family is your call, unless otherwise your karma of life needs it. So live happily and rejuvenate your soul, so that when your soul energy is been passed to a new owner, he will have all the essence, goodness and may be who knows, even your thought process and ideas.
Thank you.
